Kahwin. Lu dh ready ke der?

Umur cenggini topik kahwin terlalu mainstream. Some are wondering lelaki bagaimana akan mnjadi 'imam' mereka, *cough*cough* <-- kt fb rmi y tgh mencari imam ni. Keh3. . ideal types, things they like and dislike, u know.. the cliche things girls wud talk.. disregard the XY perspective and thinking, who is another prototype of human being. =P

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ble sebut psl mencari; 

Ak sllu dgr ble member2 duk borak mesti ad y ckp. ayah ak dh suruh cari pasangan kt sini, ak xkesah pn..klo blh nk mak ak j y tolong carikan. etc.. ble dh sllu dgr topik kawen ni, bosan jgk sbnr. dh xde perasaan nak meraikan rakan. Ma3lish. Sb ak rs cm it leads to nowhere. How exactly mencari is?

adakah enuf dgn all the blah-blah.. doing nothing, masih dengan dunia sendiri, then one day puff! the prince charming is here??! then u just say yes for whoever he is?
or adakah dengan flirt around a lil bit, tambah cheesy pick up lines, like hunting  i wud say. then let's see sangkut ke x?
or mungkin spe2 je dalam radar, teman tapi mesra.. couple. status y xtaw nk letak kt mn, part of family pn tidak, kawan pun tak. 

duh, idk. Circumstances y mn ak react sbg ak xske dan ak xkesah. The twisted community. -.-

word mencari itself sounds wronged sbnrny at least utk ak la. how u gonna do that? belzob.

Tp kn even though u r not into all of the above stated. let's say u dont hv any plan for tht for time being yet ko xbleh nk predict ble org akan propose kau kn? Xkisah la laki ke perempuan. Xkisah la ngn org y ko kenal or tak. it's future things. still one day when someone proposed to u, u have to the give an ans. lg2 klo org tu ko xknl. on what basis do u answered? 

So, recently i cme across this article. 

..You could very well be living in a place where marriage is very common and everyone is getting married but you. Equally, you could be in a place where the circumstances make you feel like you’ll never meet the ideal suitor, but Allah, the Best of Planners, brings to your doorstep the very person you were looking for all along. This is how Allah works; subtly.

Many of us are concerned about when we’ll get married or to whom, but such concerns should not consume our daily thoughts for this takes away from more urgent matters, such as our religious and worldly obligations. If you’re twen two years old for example, and Allah Had decreed for you marriage at the age of twenty seven, imagine how you would waste a good five years talking and thinking about marriage! Wouldn’t that be a misuse of the gift of time?

That day will insha Allah come but in the meantime, I have an advice for our single brothers and sisters that I hope will be of benefit; while you’re single, do yourself the favour of tending to the other half of your religion. Too often we hear singles saying ‘But I want to complete half of my deen!’ and I am always tempted to ask, ‘In what state is the other half?’ The fact that we only know few surahs in the Quran, don’t know the basic steps of self-purification or  are ignorant of the correct way of establishing prayer, yet persist on completing one half of the religion when the other half is clearly neglected, only shows where our priorities lie... 

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Dan smlm plak got the chance to ask ques dgn seriusny kpd seorang member y dh kawen 'cmner ko tw y kau dh ready to say yes to a marriage?'

Then dy bgtaw y mn ak bleh conclude sbg 'get urself prepared' i.e he other half of the deen. katanya..

1) Dr segi agama: asas fardhu ain dh meshi ke blom. ap islam ajar psl tnggungjwb suami isteri.
"ilmu agama ni kita xleh stop blaja, klu nk tunggu cukup ilmu agama sepenuhnya baru nk kawen, mmg x kawen la kan.. Tp pntg tahu hal2 pntg cth bab nbersuci, air, solat, wuduk, hukum perkahwinan (ni antara yg pntg tuk tahu, kiranya asas la) yg lain, blh blaja sama2 nnt,blh saling2 topup@ selit2 g klas agama.."
2) Ilmu dalam hidup berpasangan, pengurusan, kewangan. 

"psl ilmu berpasangan ni cth mcm kita kwn ngn orang... Cth, berlapang dada, ckp lemah lembut, blja ambik ht org, kurangkan ego, blaja masak.. klu skrngkita rasa hubungn kita ngn saeng2 mcm ok, kurang gaduh, kita pn mdh tolak ansur, cakap pn ok, pndai urus masa sket sebanyak, pndai buat kputusan wpon kdg2 kepuusan tu salah, insyaallah ok dh tu"

3) Tanggungjawab Katanya pasal tanggungjawab ni xperlu risau sgt. Ble dh taw Islam ajar cmner automatik kte akn ikut ap y terbaik utk kte.

So, rather than being anxious tentang bila, siapa dan bagaimana. Yg mn bkn dlm kekuasaan kita pn, why dont we just be ready.. Pepare ap y ptt. Chill la, everything is maktub. 

Wish i cud tell em all these. Haha..~

nyatakan jenis2 air mutlak.

keh3.